Today, I’ve been writing my November newsletter to kids and wrote about the following subject. I want to expound on it a little bit and hope it’ll be helpful to you!
Here at Northwood, we believe that it’s important for kids to see their parents worship, to experience the sights and sounds of an adult worship experience, and learn from the Pastor. These are values that we see as necessary for kids to gain, even at an early age. From time to time, parents are curious as to why we don’t have a children’s church for elementary kids. Here’s why…
~ Kids need opportunities to see their parents actively involved in worship with other believers. Worship together is the only way!
~ Our Pastor’s preaching style relates to people of all ages, from the very youngest to the very oldest.
~ Children need to learn, at an early age, that it’s important to attend worship. They need to learn how we interact with each other during worship experiences.
~ Church must be “family friendly.” The only way families can grow together is to be together. Even if it’s only one hour a week, we want kids and parents to spend time learning from the Word.
So… here’s the next question I’m usually asked…. How can me and my child both get the most out of Morning Worship. Here’s some advice for you…
~ Talk about church throughout the entire week. Explain to your child that church is a place for us to go to worship God and hear truth that we can apply. We can only worship and apply truth when we listen to the Pastor and participate in worship
~ Take your child to the bathroom before worship. This eliminates the “bathroom excuse” to get up during worship.
~ On the ride home from church, talk about the morning’s message and worship. Ask questions and provide small rewards for correct answers.
~ Pick up a Worship Fun Pack at the Welcome Center or from your child’s Bible Fellowship class. We’ve designed these packs specifically to relate to what your child learns in Bible Fellowship.
~ Encourage your child to use the Pastor’s sermon notes and complete them. Give rewards when they do so. You’ll be surprised at what kids pick up from the message.
~ Lead by example. Make sure you are worshipping and listening closely to the sermon. Your child will mimic what he sees from you.
~ Make it a habit for your child to sit with you during worship, rather than with friends. It’s important that worship be a time for kids to see their parents worship and worship themselves, not socialize with friends. This time that you have with your child is incredibly important to their view of church later in life.
I hope this helps you see where we’re coming from with our “no children’s church policy” for elementary kids. This Sunday, enjoy worship with your child…don’t dread it!